Four steps, and one of them is ours.
Everyone listed here has proved who they are before appearing. That check happens before you ever see them.
We verify, before anything is published
Government photo ID and a live selfie, checked against the photographs submitted. No listing goes live without it, and no listing predates it.
You browse
Filter by area, distance band and availability. Distances are shown as bands, never exact figures. A provider should never be locatable from a search.
You make contact
Message through the platform with a free account. Nothing is arranged, brokered or handled by us.
Both sides can report
Members report listings. Providers report clients, and those reports are checked against Blacklist by iFantasy. Reports are read by a person, not a filter.
We verify identity and publish a standard. Everything after that is between two adults.
We do not employ, represent or manage anyone
Nobody listed here works for us. We do not arrange, broker or book anything.
We never touch the money
Rates are set by the person listed and paid to them. We take no cut, ever.
Position is never for sale
The order changes every day and is the same for everyone. Nobody can pay to be first.
Verified is not the same as safe
It means the person is who they say they are. Read what that does and does not cover.
Safety and support ›Short answers. Anything else, email us.
Does verified mean safe?
No. It means the person is who they say they are. That rules out a large category of fraud, and it rules out nothing else. The Safety page is honest about the limits.
Why are distances shown as bands?
Exact distances can be triangulated. Search from three points, compare three radii, and you can narrow an address to a street. Bands keep the error large no matter how many searches are run.
Is it free?
Browsing and a member account are free. Providers pay a subscription to list. Nobody pays for position.
Why does the order change every day?
So nobody is permanently first or last. The order is shuffled once a day and is the same for every visitor that day.
What happens to my ID?
It goes to our identity checking partner, never to our own servers, and the images are deleted within 30 days of the check. We keep only the record that the check passed.
See who is available near you
Every listing here has passed the check. The order changes daily and is never for sale.